The BULLSHIT: They Don't Even Know
Women will say men don't know what they want well I would
beg to differ. I recently watched an episode of "Baisden After Dark"
and the topic was "Are Women to Picky?" I won't answer to whether they are
too picky, but something else that came up is what I will answer which is, do women really know
who it is you actually want?
A guy can tell you from the beginning whether he wants to
date you casually, have a relationship with you, or just want to fuck. The
difference is will he tell you that or will you have the courage to ask it?
Ladies on the other hand half the time can't tell you
whether she wants to do any of those. But even before that many times she has
no idea the type of guy she really wants. I break it down like this, yes she
may have this idea or image physically of the man she wants, but when its all
said and done, that man is never really close to the man she wants or even truly needs. Outside of having that physical image then you have women who can't
decide on the make-up of that man. If he's sensitive is he too sensitive, if he's
manly why is he not sensitive enough, and if he's an even balance of the two,
what's wrong with him.
What makes all this even more relevant is later in life,
many women admit to not having a clue to what it is they want. I'm talking about those single women in their 30's who are professional, successful but still SINGLE. Yes, they know
they want to be married or not, have kids or not, and the career they may want, but
none of that is the topic at hand.
The
Follow-up, a possible solution to finding what you truly want.
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However at times men won't say what it is exactly that they want. They tend to pussy foot around what it is they truly want out of the situation at hand. Whether its a fuck, relationship, etc as females we can appreciate the truth and honesty UPFRONT!
If both parties were more honest and realistic with what they want with the other person a lot of the bull shit and unnecessary kinks would & could be avoided.