tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4069556829059671282.post5113777567963895474..comments2023-10-26T11:12:48.450-04:00Comments on Theory Republic: Is She Too Bougie Theory Republichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06763867418027724374noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4069556829059671282.post-74313819279568468812013-01-07T08:20:42.332-05:002013-01-07T08:20:42.332-05:00Oh yes and don't get me started. Some ladies h...Oh yes and don't get me started. Some ladies have missed out on some very good opportunities of long lasting loving relationships because they were too busy looking at the wallet instead of listening to the conversation. The word compromise comes to mind. Who's to say that the man wanted to see what type of person she was before getting fully involved? So he invited her to a BBQ or Fridays, just to see what she'd be interested in ie: him or the place. You just never know. <br /><br />As for who pays. Either discuss it beforehand, or they could always go 'dutch' - split the bill in two. If money is an issue, cook at home, bag it up and sit have a picnic somewhere. Very romantic with a nice bottle of wine. I just think that some women take it too far, that's why they are sitting home alone most of the time - and I'm not trying to be rude, it's fact. <br /><br />A quick story - years ago a couple in church wanted to get married, 90% of the church said no, even the pastor because the man was not in work, but the woman didn't care as they loved each other. They had the cheapest wedding money could buy and budgeted carefully. Not long after he found work. Theory, I wish you could see them now, still happily married, nice home etc and the woman is in want of nothing, and I mean nothing. If she had listened to those folk, she would have lost him. Members of the church even apologized for their behavior at the time towards the couple. This is a true story. <br />Rum-Punch Drunkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13531893705181077869noreply@blogger.com